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[Jasmine's POV] Monday morning finds me in a therapist's office, staring at abstract art that probably costs more than my car. Dr. Sarah Chen's practice occupies the kind of space that whispers expensive help-plush chairs, ambient lighting, calculated calm that money purchases. She's fifties, sharp-eyed, radiating no-bullshit energy that makes me simultaneously want to run and confess everything. I've been in couples therapy before.

All four of us crammed onto a couch clearly designed for two, our therapist visibly struggling with pronouns and relationship dynamics that didn't fit her training. It was disaster-performative honesty where we all said what we thought would make us look reasonable while avoiding truths that would expose us. We stopped going after six sessions. Easier to pretend we didn't need help than admit help couldn't fix us. But this-sitting here alone, no buffer of other bodies or shared responsibility-feels different. Sitting in this office feels like admission of defeat.

Like standing up and announcing "I can't handle my own life" to room full of strangers. My hands twist in my lap, skin catching on skin, nervous energy seeking outlet. But looking at Dr. Chen's steady gaze-assessing without judgment, curious without pity-I realize defeat isn't the right word. Surrender maybe. Surrender to fact that I've been drowning and need someone to teach me how to swim. Or maybe how to let water hold me instead of fighting it. "Tell me why you're here." Her voice is measured, neither warm nor cold. Professional. The question should be simple.

Instead, it splinters into thousand possible answers, none of them complete. I choose the most accurate version, the one that encompasses wreckage without requiring full excavation. "My unconventional relationship imploded and I don't know who I am." Dr. Chen doesn't react to "unconventional"-no widening eyes, no shift in posture, nothing to indicate this is unusual or shocking or anything beyond ordinary human complication. "Let's start with that. Who were you before them?" I think back five years.

The woman who walked into that boardroom seems like different person, someone I knew intimately once but can barely remember now. "Young. Ambitious. Talented but insecure." "And now?" The present tense is harder. Requires honest inventory of who I've become, what remains after years of dividing myself into insufficient portions. "A mother. Tired. Still talented but buried under everything else." Dr. Chen writes something in notebook I can't see. The scratch of pen on paper feels like judgment even though her face reveals nothing. "You describe yourself in relation to others. Mother. Partner.

What about just Jasmine?" The question stumps me. I open my mouth, search for words that define me independently of roles I perform, relationships I maintain, needs I meet. Nothing comes. The silence stretches, becomes uncomfortable, then excruciating. Finally, I have to admit it. "I don't know who that is." "Then let's find out." She leans forward slightly, and suddenly the professional distance feels less like barrier and more like safety. "Tell me about the last time you felt purely yourself. Not performing a role." I think.

Scan through recent weeks for moments of authentic existence untethered from expectation or obligation. The answer surprises me when it surfaces-clear and undeniable. "In the studio. Writing music. Especially that song with Elijah where I almost-" I stop. The confession catches in my throat. "Almost what?" The prompt is gentle but inexorable. She's not letting me retreat from edge I've approached. "Almost kissed him." The words taste like betrayal even now, even after separation makes it technically permissible. "Almost destroyed everything. Almost became someone I don't recognize." Dr.

Chen's expression doesn't change. No shock, no disappointment, no confirmation that I'm exactly the mess I fear I am. "Or," she suggests with deliberate care, "almost became someone you do recognize but have been suppressing." The reframe detonates something in my chest. Almost became someone I recognize. Not stranger, not aberration, but self I've been denying, self that exists beneath layers of performance and people-pleasing and desperate attempts to be enough. We spend next thirty minutes dissecting my relationship with being enough.

How I've spent five years trying to be sufficient for three men-managing their needs, mediating their conflicts, stretching myself so thin I became translucent. How I've apologized for my limitations while never questioning if they were limited too. How I've accepted being divided as necessary sacrifice instead of asking why division was required in the first place. "Did you love them?" Dr. Chen asks. Direct, no preamble. "Yes. Desperately." No hesitation. Whatever else I've questioned, love was never one of them. "Did they love you?" Harder question.

I think about Asher's distance, Finn's wandering attention, even Liam's patient waiting that sometimes felt like resignation. "Yes. But maybe not enough to stay." Dr. Chen tilts her head, considering. "Or maybe you loved them not enough to ask them to stay." The distinction matters. Lands with force that makes my breath catch. Not enough to stay versus not enough to ask them to stay. The difference between their failure and mine. Between abandonment and permission to leave. Between being left and letting go. "I don't understand," I say, but I do. I'm just not ready to admit it.

"You gave them permission to leave," she explains, voice steady and certain. "Through your accommodations, your flexibility, your willingness to be one-third instead of whole. You performed so well at sharing that they forgot you might need to be chosen. And when choosing became necessary, they'd already learned you didn't require it." The observation is surgical incision-precise, necessary, excruciating. I taught them I didn't need to be chosen. Proved through five years of dividing myself that I was content with fractions. And now I'm devastated they believed me.

"So this is my fault?" My voice comes out sharper than intended. "Fault is useless concept." Dr. Chen waves it away. "Responsibility is different. You're responsible for not voicing your needs. They're responsible for not seeing them anyway. Everyone contributed to structure that collapsed. Question isn't whose fault. Question is what you want to build now." "I don't know what I want." "Then that's where we start." She closes her notebook, session drawing to close. "Homework: Journal about who Jasmine is, wants to be. Write without considering anyone else's needs.

Not your children, not your partners, not your brother, not society. Just you." The concept is radical. Terrifying. I've spent so long filtering every desire through lens of how it affects others that considering only myself feels selfish, impossible, dangerous. "What if I don't like who that is?" The question escapes before I can stop it. Dr. Chen smiles-first genuine expression I've seen from her. "Then at least you'll know. And knowing is first step toward choosing." I leave her office with assignment that feels simultaneously simple and insurmountable. Journal about myself.

Write without consideration for others. Figure out who I am beneath all the roles I perform. The parking lot is full of people moving through their Monday mornings-dropping kids at school, heading to offices, existing in ordinary ways I've forgotten how to access. I sit in my car, engine off, staring at steering wheel like it holds answers it definitely doesn't possess. Who is Jasmine? The question echoes in hollow space where certainty used to live. I don't know. Can't access self that exists independently of others' needs and expectations.

Don't remember what I wanted before wanting became about being enough for everyone else. But Dr. Chen is right. Not knowing is exactly why I need to figure it out. Can't build future on foundation I don't understand. Can't choose direction when I don't know where I'm starting from. I start the engine. Drive toward house that's becoming mine in ways it never was when shared. And somewhere between therapy office and home, I make decision. I'm going to figure out who the fuck Jasmine is. Even if it terrifies me. Especially if it does. Virgin Dot Com